Lies are part of everyday life. Research published
in the Journal of Basic and Applied Psychology indicates that a person in
active conversation in a social group typically tells 2.92 lies
every 10 minutes. We’re not talking about serious deceits or money-inspired
cons – at least not very often. Overwhelmingly they are insignificant white
lies intended to lubricate conversation or to avoid potential conflicts. They
can be anything from false compliments (“your hair looks nice”) to false
explanations about why one didn’t answer the phone earlier. The 2.92 number
doesn’t even take account of “lies of omission,” i.e. intentionally giving a
false impression by leaving out pertinent information. Most of us acknowledge
this foible in ourselves, and might even debate the term “foible.” We still
likely consider ourselves honest “in ways that matter.” Nonetheless, the taboo
of dishonesty we learn as children (and at the same time learn selectively to
violate) still can make us feel guilt when we are forced to face our
prevarications.
An acquaintance of mine makes a sport of catching
people out. If you slip in conversation by giving two contradictory statements
of where you ate lunch yesterday, most of us (perhaps not a jealous spouse, but
most of us) will just let that slide without mention; we know you just wanted
to frame a restaurant recommendation or some such thing. Not this fellow. He’ll
acquire a satisfied grin and say, “But I thought you said”… etc. This is
socially objectionable and explains why he seldom is invited to parties. There
are people, however, who detect lies not just to be annoying but for a living.
Actually, “lie detection” is a misnomer. No one who starts out uncertain of the
facts can detect a lie. He or she, if competent, merely can detect emotional
responses that might indicate a person is lying. Then again, they might
indicate something else. People get emotional for lots of reasons. Sometimes
the truth triggers emotions.
The man who literally wrote the book on lie detection
is Paul Ekman. A professor emeritus at UC, Ekman consults with police, national
security agencies, private companies, and legal specialists on such things as
facial cues, voice inflections, and polygraphs. In his book Telling Lies he describes experiments which
demonstrate that most people are terrible at detecting lies. They misread body
language and voice patterns and rarely beat pure chance results on controlled
tests. Police superficially appear to have a higher rate of success than the
general population but only because their job breeds such cynicism that they often
assume everyone is lying; you won’t miss the liars if you accuse everybody. If
you include their false positives – people assumed to be lying who are telling
the truth – police typically are not any more accurate than the general public.
Contrary to the claims of some enthusiasts, polygraphs also are not much better
than chance in the hands of the average polygraph operator. As Ekman repeatedly
points out, the machines do not and cannot detect lies directly. They merely record
emotional responses. They do not even specify which emotion the subject is
feeling, just its intensity. It is easy to misinterpret the data.
The good news – or at least the useful news – is
that by combining the polygraph with a serious study of expressions,
micro-expressions, and questioning techniques, the success rate at lie
detection can be boosted. An example of a useful questioning technique for a
polygraph test would be as follows. Rather than ask a murder suspect what
weapon he used, recite to him a list of possible weapons (assuming you know the
answer yourself but that the public doesn’t know); a guilty suspect will almost
surely have an emotional response when he hears the right weapon while an
innocent person likely will have the same response to each weapon named. It is
not always possible to frame questions this way, of course. The police do not always
have sufficient knowledge to do so. But with training a minority (about a
third) of trainees can achieve success rates as high as 80%.
Therein lies the promise and the rub. Even this
elite cadre is wrong 20% of the time. Most so-called experts are wrong far more
often than that. A 20% error rate sounds a lot like “reasonable doubt,” and the
odds are against getting an expert as good as that. False positives, and they
are common, can cause innocent people a world of trouble. Further, just as a
person can be trained to detect lies better, a person can be trained to tell
them better too, including to polygraph machines. Lawyers train their witnesses
in a limited way all the time. Courtrooms are ideally designed to aid liars
anyway. Cases come before a jury long after the event, so the emotional
responses of the witnesses have dulled. Furthermore the type of questions is
restricted and the witnesses are coached. It also has been demonstrated that
some people are natural liars who regularly defeat interrogators and polygraphs;
on the other hand, some other people can’t tell convincing lies to save their
lives, and training helps them very little.
Ekman’s conclusion:
“…I do not believe that judgments about who is
lying should be allowable evidence in court. Such judgments, however, may
provide a sounder basis for deciding, at least initially, whom to investigate
further…”
This seems to be a sound policy recommendation. He
has similar reservations about polygraphs used by private companies for
employment reasons. They simply are not reliable, especially in the hands of
the typical operator.
While a skilled analyst’s 80% success rate may not
be proof, it is worth noticing. Ekman’s techniques are useful and his books are
intriguing reads. But, if you learn his methods, I urge against using them to
confront people with their harmless fibs in social situations. The number of invitations you receive to parties will fall drastically.
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It's funny how people separate lies from white lies (less harmless) to other lies (gray or black?). However they are all lies. I also wonder which gender lies more. Sorry ladies, I think they do, for one, they talk more, but it seems for a lot of female teens, it just comes with adolescence.
ReplyDeleteI like to watch Judge Judy, and shes very good at sizing people up in various ways. For one she says if it sounds too good to be true, it probably isn't. I use that rule myself. Also for women, it they wear something that's fairly low cut, they will flush or blush, and turn bright red. For teenage women she has stated, "How do you know when they're lying, when their mouth moves."
In the "Journal of Basic and Applied Psychology" article mentioned above, men and women in the experiment lied at about the same rate, though there was a difference in style. Both used lies to posture socially, but women were more likely than men to lie in order to gain social allies, while men were more likely than women simply to falsely brag.
DeleteA pleasant film of teen lies getting out of hand is the early Katherine Heigl flick "My Father the Hero" (1994). Anything that ends up before Judge Judy is unlikely be pleasant, but, yes, she does have her moments.
I think lies are just a basic part of the social framework. We all expect them, we all participate in them, and we all end up getting caught in them at some time or another. I wonder if other highly social animals lie as much. What would a dolphin lie about?
ReplyDeleteMonkeys have been filmed giving false "danger" cries in order to send the other monkeys scampering into the trees and leaving behind all the food for the liar. I wouldn't be surprised if they groom fellow troop members they dislike in order to gain social advantage.
DeleteDolphin? Good question. Perhaps, like any fisherman, about the one that got away.